One of my ex-favorite clichés is that "God is in Control"
I even remember a 1990s Christian hit on the radio playing in my head right now "wa-oh-oh...God-is-in-control!"
At least that's how I remember the song. Anyway, when women get older -- especially women over 40 who's lives turned out nothing like expect -- might have more of the kind of sentiment I share below:
Nobody who's every been sexually abused wants to feel like someone's controlling them. Is this really the kind of life God wants for sexual abuse victims and survivors?
I would hope not!