Oftentimes what people want is “the one.” However, not many people even know what it means to know what is means to know it is the right person-the one for life.
What I Really Want
I want to not be judged so harshly by “the one”, because that is the kind of person I can truly respect. If I’m respected then I know I can go easier on the person I’m with.
I want to be seen for who I really am and for my strengths. I want someone who sees the good and me and who doesn’t excessively criticize.
Furthermore, even if the individual who is supposed to be my destiny, “the one” does not have to be perfect. He just has to love me, and I shouldn’t have to guess that he is into me.
That’s all I want because I think that is what destiny really is. I know that it will be “the one” when he accepts me for whom I am and doesn’t waver.