I'm in my mid 30s and have no idea what to expect. I never felt so insecure in my life. When I was younger I thought I had all this time to find "the one" and to find myself, and so on. I can't believe how time just passed me by. Now my skin is starting to show early signs of wrinkling, especially under my eyes. What do do??? I'm not ready for all of this psychologically. I hope my life isn't over. I never thought I'd be single this long.